Trenecsia's Flowers

Trenecsia… you are the truth! You exemplify what it means to be a solid friend who gives to others from the heart. In all the years that I have known you, you have never once let me down. You always bring good energy when you show up and your smile and that gentle nod you do is a sense of comfort that is hard to explain.

You’re a wonderful mother and wife and your kids are so blessed to be able to call you “Mom”! You have a creative touch and flair and you’re always thinking outside of the box for fun activities. I love getting the call of “So I was thinking of hosting a party… what are your thoughts on….”!! Some of my favorite calls to receive, figuring out how I can assist you or simply show up to the magic.

When I think of a woman who is the true essence of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc…. your image pops into my mind. Scholarship, Service, Sisterly Love and Finer Womanhood. You are incredible and the world needs to know your name. So let me shout it from the mountain top! You cheer everyone on always. And I want you to know… I will continue to cheer you on for life.

I want to thank you for listening to my wild stories about timelines/space/money not being real! Thank you for showing up to my events and being present in the moment. (The Blue party never existed… but some may claim they remember) Thank you for sharing my name in rooms that my feet have not stepped into. Thank you for including me with important milestones in your family’s life. Thank you for praying for me and speaking greatness over my life. Thank you for answering the call and showing up. Thank you for believing in me! And thank you for helping me buy my first home. (Speaking that into existence… because this will be happening and soon).

So these flowers are for you. Thank you for being my friend!!

Your Flowers… XOXO

Kenneth's Flowers

My dear friend Kenneth!! Words will probably escape me a few times while writing this but you know that I always loop back around to finish my thoughts. Our friendship started during the pandemic and it’s funny because we knew of each other but it took one simple Instagram Live dj set to connect the dots. You know, the dots that I’m the best photographer in the world and that you should book with me to take headshots for your podcast. Also, your friend Kevin was such a vibe that day of the photos… and this was also the first time I’ve ever wielded an axe. Random to say the least, I was the worst at chopping wood, your friend was right there in 2nd place and you were amazing at it!

I have so much appreciation for you. You made space for me to open up about the confusion that was running through my mind. You always had the right things to say and thought provoking questions to ask that made me dig a little deeper. I can truthfully say, there were times where you believed in me more than I believed in myself. Many of times where you were cheering for me when I didn’t even feel like showing up for the game. You have saved me in more ways than one because your heart is pure. You always want the people around you to feel happy. And your words are more powerful than you could even imagine.

You show up for not only me, but the people you care about. You put in the hard work when things matter to you and you don’t give up when situations get challenging. You’re an amazing father and seeing the way your eyes light up when you talk about your son warms my heart. Thank you for coming to my surprise birthday party! #TogoGhana in the house! Thank you for bringing the ‘French Connection’ to my Expo. Thank you for greeting my mother with such respect and honor. Thank you for all the laughs. Thank you for listening to the woes of my heart. Thank you for setting up my Google security system in my shop when my power tool skills were still developing. (I am much better with a power drill now. Just need the world to know that). Thank you for allowing me to feel safe in being myself and wanting greatness for my life.

Your kindness exudes in everything that you do. I always joke and tell you that not everyone deserves your niceness. The type of energy you have is rare… protect that at all costs and pour into those who matter to you the most. There may be rain clouds in the sky, but the rain will only fall in certain areas. Those chosen spots are important because that is where the rain should be, to help those seeds grow and the flowers to fully bloom. Thank you for being in my life and not giving up on me. Thank you for valuing our friendship and holding it close to your heart. Thank you for being you…. the world is a better place because you are in it.

Your Flowers… XOXO

Lauren's Flowers

Lauren… my spirit guides knew I would need your strength and support when they sent me on a mission to reconnect and find you again. I still can’t fully process how someone I’ve ‘known of’ for years (since High School) would be the same person who walks such an incredible journey of healing and self discovery with me. Your ability to see the light in situations truly is a blessing within itself. You embody a type of energy that is gifted to only a few. Once people experience the unique flame you protect within your core, there is no denying that you are special.

You’ve walked through FIRE this past year, and somehow managed to continue touching souls in the most gentle and caring way. How do you do it?! I ask myself this often, and I still haven’t figured it out. You created space for me to practice speaking my truths. Yes, half of the time it starts out with… “This may seem really weird/crazy but hear me out”. We are now at the point where we just expect the unexpected. Speaking of that, thank you for being in the recording studio with me as a cheerleader when I recorded a song from the heart. My biggest goal that day was to ‘NOT’ cry while in the booth because I knew if I did, the producer would save that audio sample and loop it in the future so remind me of how I cried while in the studio. You have been right there during this ‘life test’ I’ve been navigating through and I’m so thankful for you.

You are one the BEST photographers in Washington State. Hands down… let me give you all your flowers for the way you photographed my baby niece!!! Those images will be cherished for a lifetime. Photography brought us together years ago and it reconnected us in a way once again. Our very first photography studio was shared together with April. 3 ladies from the same high school sharing a business location was fantastic. You’ve assisted me on projects like at Microsoft and Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center. I wouldn’t have wanted anyone else by my side for those events because we have a way of laughing throughout the full work day/experiences.

Thank you for living on the edge of excitement and wonder with me. Thank you for creating spaces for me to to be open and vulnerable while I have been processing my new life happenings/changes. THANK YOU for the under eye patches you give me while I cry and instantly fear that my under eyes will turn into leather strips. (I think sadness tears actually burn and happy tears are used to aid in the creation of the fountain of youth). A researcher should study that theory, because I have questions and could totally be onto something!! Thank you for telling me about that sandwich shop inside of the Chevron gas station. It’s so flipping good and yes, the world could judge me but they can’t knock it too hard until they try one. Delicious!!

So this is me giving you, ‘Your Flowers’. Thank you Lauren for being you!

Your Flowers - XOXO

Alxandra's Flowers

Alxandra… I want to give you your flowers. Meeting you has been the most epic whirlwind of fun adventures and living life to its fullest. You embody what it means to work hard and play hard. Our energies clicked when we first met and I was in awe of how fearless you were. Watching someone dance as hard as you do so effortlessly was a breath of fresh air. Honestly, if people have not seen you bust a move on a dance floor (table, chair, pool deck, ATV, or any somewhat flat surface) they are truly missing out. It’s safe to say Jamaicans and Nigerians have a special bond and we give the world another kick ass example of just that.

You are one of the few individuals that I always pick up when you call to FaceTime. There is always a story to be caught up on or ideas to bounce around. Please know, I’ll continue to always pick up for you because you have always been there to pick up for me. No other person randomly sends a message + airbnb details + question mark and says… “Are you coming” more than you! I love that you travel and explore the world. Joining you and your friends in Mexico will always be a highlight. (We won’t talk about that moment when you danced a bit too hard and things went upside down!!)

The way you have built your business should be studied. You’ve invested in your craft in so many ways. Trips across the USA to master new techniques and styles. All so you can provide a luxury experience for your clients. You are a celebrity stylist and I will always be in your corner gassing you up! Your client list blows my mind! Alicia Keys, ShaCarri Richardson, Megan Thee Stallion, Serena Williams, Nike, Milan Fashion Week… listen I could keep on going but the internet is not ready for all that heat. You are killing the game and you’re building an empire unlike anything Washington State has seen before. Of course you would… you brought that New York City flair to the West Coast! I’m here for it.

I’m proud to be your friend. I’m thankful to have you in my life. And I can’t wait for what events/adventures/chill sessions/ life happenings we will share next. #TeamFriendsWithMoney for life!!

Your Flowers … XOXO

Angela's Flowers

Angela Mose…. the amount of flowers I wish I could hand to you would fill up so many rooms. Almost to the point I’m sure it would cause a safety hazard for any ballroom/venue. On the bright side, you know just about everyone and I’m certain we wouldn’t get a citation or in trouble for the overflow. With that being said… I want to say THANK YOU.

Thank you for being one of the strongest women I know. Back in 2015 when I was going through the thick of the winter blues you came up with a concept/idea that I ran with. I think back to that breakfast 9 years ago where I inhaled pancakes and you just poured so much positivity and light into me. Also, my love for pancakes has not decreased over the years and it’s most likely because I associate them with the amazing happenings like on that day.

Thank you for showing up for EVERYONE. I’m always so impressed with how many events you can fit into one weekend. The thought of going to just one or two blows my mind and you have a full schedule/lineup of places to attend always. That just goes to show how many people highly rate you and your big kind heart. You show up for your family without blinking an eye. You show up for your friends for the big and small things. And you’ve always shown up for your staff. You’re the best General Manager/Boss/Director/Leader that I know. (And for those who may not know… she was my manager for about a year back in 2013/2014. I was the BEST employee EVER! I also never went back to working for a company after I left.) Essentially you taught me how to be a better BOSS Lady!

I never thought I would sit inside of a hospital birthing suite and watch you bring new life into the world. It’s safe to say all of your babies are my babies too… minus the feeding, bathing, taking them to school and the actual day to day part. You and I both know I have a weird sleeping schedule and I need my random naps when the sandman pops up. I’ll forever be #TeamNaps and anyone who wants to argue can fight me. Kidding… I’m a lover not a fighter. (Insert eye roll) LOL!!

I admire your ability to challenge yourself and push through obstacles no matter the size. I have learned to be more open minded and willing to let things roll off my shoulders. (Front desk lady during our Hawaii trip… I’m better now! I promise!) You have walked a lot of tough roads with me and you never have given up on our friendship. You pour into me in ways that I can only describe as an earth angel. So much wisdom, love and acceptance.

So thank you for being you. And I wanted to shower you with flowers to let you and the world know that you mean so much to me!

Your Flowers - XOXO

Kariba's Garden

Happy February 2024! I decided to take a different approach to this season of ‘LOVE’. Things in my life have been quite interesting in the past few months and despite the rocky nature that I’ve found myself in, the foundation of it all has honestly been pure love.

Giving people their flowers while they are still here is important to me. It is about speaking truths and showering those that I care about with a little water to help them grow even more. At one point we were all seeds and it was the love, guidance and care of people around us who helped us grow through nutrients, wisdom and insights. So for the countdown towards the day we celebrate ‘Love’ - February 14… I will be giving flowers to those individuals in my life that I truly care about. So from my garden I will share with you, my beautiful readers… flowers from the heart. And since I’ve been called extra for as long as I can remember… I will start with myself!! After all, I love receiving flowers and more so buying them for myself!

Kariba…. you deserve flowers! You have experienced what most would call the most incredible rollercoaster ride in these past 5 months. The beauty in it, is you never called it quits. You held on tight and you braved each dip and rise like a champ. Giving up was not an option and somehow I admire you for being so strong during some of the lowest points in your life. You amaze me!

Showing up for yourself is one thing, but you managed to continuously show up for your friends and family. YOU ARE A ROCKSTAR and if nobody has told you, well…. today is your lucky day. You are WORTHY of love that is pure. Rooted in truth and watered with abundance. You are caring to those who need you even when they don’t know it for themselves. Your laugh is contagious and you find ways to make the most impossible situations seem manageable with quick fixes and magnificent ideas. You are light… a key component for growth. And this is why your garden will continue to bloom. Never dim your light because you’re special. Both the physical world and your sprint guides smile when you wake up each day, because it’s another opportunity to see true magic flourish.

You deserve all the flowers in the world…. I love you!

Your Flowers… XOXO